Posts by Chantal Dawtrey
When we don’t look after ourselves, how does this affect how we coach?
Who am I to challenge them to take better care of themselves if I don’t or won’t take care of myself? Why coaching supervision is a must-do if you’re a coach.
Read MoreLife beyond the crossroads looks like…
What is your crossroads? What dilemma, difficult decision or conundrum do you face? Our country sure faces a big one. The Dinokeng Scenarios offered up the three choices: Walk apart; walk behind or walk together. We have ‘walked apart’ several times since the scenarios were drafted in 2009. Leadership has often appeared unaccountable. As a…
Read MoreThe discomfort of confronting yourself
Day 1 of the Community Building Workshop was a mixture of the swooping warm energy of engagement, the giddy joy of appreciation, the spiraling confusion of being misunderstood, and the iron clad courage of finding my voice. I almost lost it after several minutes, at different intervals, of making myself heard over the cacophony of…
Read MoreWhat it means to be a citizen
A citizen is one who is willing to be accountable for and committed to the well-being of the whole”, Peter Block. What does that mean for me? Is the well being of the whole up to me? Really? That is a seriously big responsibility. One that on first glance I think I would prefer to…
Read More#SAVision2030 What are You Doing??
In his book Community, The Structure of Belonging, Peter Block reminds us about how we “love our habit of dependency and accept the culture of retribution because it reinforces the case for strong leaders – ‘strong’ being the code word for autocratic, a message our culture is increasingly willing to accede to.” (p40) He goes…
Read MoreThe day after Christmas
On the day after Christmas the world feels like a quieter place. The frenetic energy of the last few days has calmed. The roads are empty as traffic lights blink to no-one. Some flash only red in rain flooded sulkiness. People emerge into the new day looking sleepy and full. Everything feels full and slow.…
Read MoreWhat is it about the colour Red?
And yellow or orange? Do these colours send electric impulses through the eyes of the observer, usually in a motor vehicle, causing them to press their accelerators down even harder? Do they make individuals rage with fury at the thought of being stopped? Hence the urge to attack and move forward at speed, rather than…
Read MoreWhen last did you learn something about yourself that changed your life?
Learning. That word: learning. What images, thoughts or feelings does it conjure up for you, I wonder? Does it bring back memories of stuffy school classrooms, and stuffier teachers? Did you learn anything there that changed your life? I can’t say that I did. I did meet someone who determined the course of my life.…
Read MoreBeing coached
For me, being coached gave me the privilege of having my very own learning partner. Someone who focused solely on me for 1.5hrs a month over a period of 10 months, giving me 15 hours of intense one on one work. The accelerated learning, the opportunity to embed it in the spaces between the sessions,…
Read MoreMediation the way to go?
I recently received my international accreditation as a mediator and this morning went to a morning get together to refresh skills and get news on the status of mediation in the country. So many mediators have a legal background but it was refreshing to see more of a diverse background from those who made the…
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